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“Coming together
is a beginning; keeping together
is progress;
working together
is success.”

Henry Ford

Marriages are
made in
heaven
and
consummated
on Earth.

John Lyly

Marriage is
not about age;
it's about
finding
the
right person.

Sophia Bush

Don't marry the
person you think
you can live with;
marry only the
individual you think
you can't live without.

James Dobson

 
Matrimonial Forum : Charmakar Samaj

Matrimonial issue of Charmakar Samaj occupies top priority in our community's social activity. Parents of marriageable girls or boys are often seen hard-pressed while searching for the 'best bride' or the 'best bridegroom' as a life partner for their wards.

We have very limited role in conducting Matrimonial matters of Charmakars. Because, most of the parents and highly educated boys and girls are giving first preference to approach the corporate style Matrimonial Websites like Bharat Matrimony (they also have micro-sites like 'Chambhar Matrimony', 'Marathi Matrimony' etc), Jeevan Saathi Matrimony, Shadi dot com etc.

Our suggestions to the parents of marriageable boys and girls :

i) We appreciate Parents for their spirited search of 'the best' alliance for their girl or boy. But this search should remain merit based and not greed driven. Similarly, emphasis should be more on ascertaining good 'character, ability, capability, potential, career prospects' etc, than getting lured to the 'beauty', 'personality', 'package +' or 'kundali'.

ii) Must take due care, precaution to avoid cases of cheating and fraud on Matrimony Websites.

iii) Parents should verify profile details of the boys and girls, as well as their family by ascertaining correctness of their caste, age, residential addresses (temporary and permanent), educational status, job profile details, financial status, bad habits, health status, religious and sectarian beliefs, political activism, criminal cases etc. Otherwise future marital life of newly wedded boys and girls would come in jeopardy, leading to frustration.

 

We appeal to all Charmakar community members to share names of localized 'Community Vivah Mandals' from their districts and talukas. This will enable us to promote existing Charmakar Vivah Mandals, in order to consolidate and strengthen intra-community activities of Charmakars. The localized and conventional Vivah Mandals have been useful to the society from the point of view of verification of profile details of the Charmakar boys and girls.

 
 
 
 

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Keep your eyes
wide open
before marriage,
half shut
afterwards.

Benjamin Franklin

Well married
a person has
wings,
poorly married
shackles.

Henry Ward Beecher

An ideal wife
is any woman
who has an
ideal husband.

Booth Tarkington

The difficulty with marriage
is that
we fall in love with
a personality,
but must live with
a character.

Peter De Vries

 
 

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